And what's wrong with being single???

These days i wonder why being single seems more like a disease than a status...you won't believe all my close friends are doing their best to hook me up with this guy and that guy...and i keep reminding them that I'm still a young lady!!! I meet a guy and the first question their asking is, "what do you think of him as your man?" Really, I'm amazed!!! Do i really need all the extra help I'm getting??? What happened to the times when we sit and wait for our Mr Right to come and sweep us off our feets? That's the way it should be. We should sit and sit and sit!!! Cuz we should be found. I know many are going to call this archaic. Many think that we should be out there calling the shots, picking this man and proposing marriage..afterall, we are equal beings...And sometimes i wanna believe that too. But let's not decieve ourselves, we loved being chased. We love all the attention it brings, and even if we end up not dating the guy, we still enjoy the chase!! Sometimes, we wanna relax, cut the guy some slacks but in the end, u'l see it never pays!!! Ladies make them sweat abegy..alright I'm kinda getting carried away.I was talking about being single. Compared to the heartbreaks and heartaches girls face in relationships everyday, i'l pick being single. Don't get me wrong, i dont like being single..infact being single sucks..and Yes, i've been single for so long i know. But, i'v had a feel of what it feels to be in a relationship. It's nice and it's special. And it's not something u sholud have to share with 5 or ten or more people hence it loses its value. So don't blame me if i'm almost synonymous with the word "single", i just want to get it and get it right. I'm not some cheap suit any man can just come and try on to see if it fits and pull off if it doesnt. What am i getting at? I love my friends and i love the fact that they want me to "be with someone". But it has to happen right. Come to think of it, am i ready for such a big responsibility??? i know my DADDY isn't in the business of giving Rolls-Royces to 2 years old. I know if He thinks i am ready, "my One" will definately come and i'll so blog about it!!!!